Got Bad Vibes?

Do you guys ever have those days when you read something and it triggers some memories that suck? You know, like this one...
This seriously did it for me. It doesn't matter how, why, where I was screwed over but the fact is I got screwed over and because of that, I changed. A lot. I'm not really willing to share how and why I changed but just remember, before you say anything bad to and about someone, are you really willing to risk your relationship with that person you're talking about? If yes, then go ahead.

Anyway, my advice is, when you get these bad thoughts, these memories from the past that bothers you, tell yourself this...
BUT you know what, if there is anything bothering you right now, and something you would like to tell someone (but choose not to), I'm going to allow Anonymous comments today so you can let it out. No judgement here, I promise.


On a good note, the questions for the Valentine's Day link up will be posted tomorrow! :)


  1. Yep, I've been screwed over...and it made me change A LOT. I'm not even a fan of how I've changed...but at this point in life, I feel like this is how I have to be.

  2. Assholes make you change when they hurt you, but then again I'm probably an asshole and have at some point changed someone:)

  3. I just made a post like this a few days ago! So explicitly, we all know my struggles...or...PAST struggles :)

    amanda @ we and serendipity

  4. Love this!! And yes, as much as getting screwed over hurts, it's best to take steps forward, and never move back

  5. fantastic blogpost :)
    lovely greets and a good night to you.
    maren anita

    FASHION-MEETS-ART by Maren Anita

  6. i had a crappy day today, so that was a nice quote to read :) things always change!

    come say hello MOCCASIN RUN

  7. I hear ya! But amongst all that heartache and tears shed I know Im a much bigger and better person now for it x

  8. I really like your blog dear!
    Keep up with the great work!